jeudi 21 juillet 2011

what's happiness

Im trying to find what's happiness  if it exist in the first place . Between the tears , the problems the lies the anger and the sadness , i started looking for that thing wich would make me smile , maybe i passed by happiness and i didn't saw it , maybe i should be happy and im stuped enough to not notice that !! so i started asking around what's happiness ? i had different answears , some link happiness to helth , money , love , family , other associate happiness to there state of mind .

So if there is no logical explination to this feeling called happiness what is it ?? Philosephers ans religious thinkers often define happiness in term of living a good life or flourishing rather than simply as an emotion .

Others says that happiness depend of how much money they have and how many things they own , wich is not that correct , of course money can make life easier and more comfortable but certenly not happier , of course it's more intresting to drive a porsh than a polo but if you are alone that amasing car will mean nothing .

So do this means that happiness depend of love?? yes it could be cause love is the cause of many problems , and im not talking about the romantic love , im talking about love in general . How many child was unhappy cos he fels hates and rejected at school or at his family ? or how many person was feeling sad just cause the feel that there friends don't love them anymore , and when it comes to the romantic love we are all weak , no one can spend his life alone without that someone he could share his great moment and his bad moments .

Succes , self estime , family , friends can also be part of the equasion of happiness , wish is make me think that hapiness do exist but we can't be happy all the time otherwise it will loose it's magic , we shouldn't spend our lives chasing it , cos in that case we wont find it .

happiness is not the end of the road but it's one of differents states of mind that we experience when we are taking that road , it's only when we stop our obsession about happiness and let it go , we can find our happy moment :) coz even when life sucks and nothing go as we want we can still find a way to smile and go ahead cos being happy it's not about perfection it dosen't mean that every thing is perfect and as we planned , being happy is about deciding to look beyong all the imperfections , and embracing and accepting our lives :) 

2 commentaires:

  1. well I think that happiness is an attitude, something/feeling that one finds when he/she finds what he/she really wants in life. that confidence of knowing exactly what we want can ( most probably does) make us happy people. the very thought of wanting to achieve sth in life against all odds/obstacles make us feel good about ourselves and thus happy people. Happiness is a way of life, you can easily reach it when you don't look for it, but look for who you are.

  2. what ever makes you happy.... Making less spelling mistakes would make you happier, for example